Finally understand your relationship dynamic and stop guessing what to do next.

If you’re replaying messages, analysing mixed signals, or stuck in an anxious–avoidant loop…
nothing changes until you understand the actual mechanism driving the dynamic.

In 60 minutes, we will:

  • map your dynamic
  • identify the 2–3 patterns keeping you stuck
  • give you a personalised plan for your next steps

→ 60 minutes
→ Clear answers
→ Written report + Loom breakdown
→ $200 one-time payment

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Is this uncomfortably accurate?

You’re likely here because at least one of these hits:

  • “I don’t know if I should reach out or pull back — both feel wrong.”
  • “I can’t decode whether they’re overwhelmed, losing interest, or just avoidant.”
  • “They say they care but act distant. I don’t know how to read it anymore.”
  • “My reactions are too strong. I know I’m spiralling but I can’t stop.”
  • “It’s like I’m stuck in the same loop with different people.”

Here’s the part no one tells you:

Your problem isn’t emotional.
It’s structural.

Once you see the pattern, the confusion stops instantly.

This diagnostic is for people who want fast, accurate clarity, not months of vague therapy or false hope.

Why Content Hasn’t Helped You (And Why This Will)

You can’t solve your own relationship dynamic from the inside because:

  • You’re emotionally biased
  • You're operating inside your partner’s triggers AND your own
  • You’re interpreting behaviour without a model
  • You’re filling gaps with fear, not data

This diagnostic solves that by giving you:

1. A third-party, attachment-informed analysis

Unbiased. Objective. No emotional distortion.

2. A precise map of your dynamic

Not generic “anxious/avoidant” labels, the real system you’re operating in.

3. One clear strategy

No more contradictory advice from TikTok or friends who mean well but don’t understand attachment dynamics.

This is the equivalent of X-raying your dynamic.
Once you see the structure, everything becomes obvious.

What Happens in the 60 Minutes

1. Attachment & Dynamic Mapping

We reveal the real engine behind the push-pull, shutdowns, spirals, and mixed signals.

2. Your Blind Spots

We uncover the 2–3 invisible patterns keeping you stuck — the things you can’t see from inside the dynamic.

3. Your Personalised Strategy

Clear steps for the next 7–30 days.
No ambiguity. No “work on yourself” clichés.

4. Reconnection Clarity

If reconnection is realistic, I’ll map the path.
If it isn’t, I’ll explain exactly why — respectfully but bluntly.

This isn’t a casual conversation.
It’s a structured assessment.

What You Leave With

You walk away with:

  • A complete map of your attachment dynamic
  • The root cause of the distance / inconsistency
  • A yes/no on reconnection (with reasoning)
  • Exact scripts + steps for the next 7–30 days
  • A regulation tool to stabilise spiralling immediately
  • A written diagnostic report

Most clients say this is the first time they finally understood what the hell was happening.

Why This Works

I’ve analysed thousands of anxious–avoidant and mixed-signal relationship patterns.

After that many cases, you stop guessing — you see the underlying structure instantly.

My background combines:

  • Attachment science
  • Nervous system regulation
  • CBT/DBT-based pattern analysis
  • Real-world communication modelling
  • Data from thousands of actual client dynamics

This isn’t therapy.
This is pattern recognition.

And once we map the pattern, you finally understand:

  • What they’re actually responding to
  • Why they pull away
  • Why you react so intensely
  • Where your leverage points really are
  • What creates reconnection (and what kills it)

How It Works

  1. Book your time
  2. Answer three quick prep questions
  3. We meet for 60 minutes via Google Meet
  4. I deliver your diagnostic and strategy
  5. Within 24–48 hours you receive your:
    • written report
    • personalised Loom analysis

Price: $200

One-time payment.
No upsells during the call.

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Who This Is NOT For

❌ Anyone wanting manifesting, astrology, or spiritual coaching
❌ Anyone seeking reassurance instead of truth
❌ Anyone not ready for direct feedback
❌ Anyone wanting to be told their ex is coming back no matter what

If you prefer comfort over clarity, this isn’t for you.
If you want answers, it is.

FAQ

Is my situation too complicated?

Nothing you say will surprise me. Patterns repeat. Once we map yours, you’ll see it clearly.

Will this help me get my ex back?

If reconnection is realistic, I’ll outline the path.
If not, I’ll tell you — clearly — so you don’t waste time or emotional energy.

Do you give me a plan?

Yes. The entire point of the diagnostic is to give you a specific, personalised plan, not vague advice.

Do you offer follow-ups?

You get a report + Loom breakdown. If you want structured long-term support, we can discuss Secure Base — zero pressure.

Is this therapy?

No. This is strategic, attachment-informed analysis designed to get clarity fast.

Ready to stop spiralling and finally understand what’s actually happening?

You’ve spent enough time trying to decode things alone.
If you want clarity, accuracy, and a concrete plan — this is your next step.

$200 · 60 minutes · Clear answers.

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