Diary Of An Avoidant

Diary of an Avoidant offers a deep dive into the avoidant attachment experience. Through personal stories, psychological insights, and real-life lessons, discover how avoidants think, love, and struggle with connection.

Diary of an Avoidant — The Shame of Being Seen

I talk about love and connection on stage — yet I still hide when I’m afraid to fail. This is what avoidant shame looks like: not pushing people away, but waiting until success feels safe before letting them in.

The Illusion of Keeping My Options Open

When I was in my early 20s, I thought keeping

The Day I Realized I Had No Needs

For me, the essence of a successful relationship has always

Struggle with Vulnerability

I’ve always had a strange admiration for the bad

Learning to Face Conflict

From as far back as I can remember, conflict has